What Is the Love?

Hi arshi want to say you about love
Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two

Love Flower

In the late 1990's, I was teaching English in Kyoto, Japan. Many of my students were stunningly attractive, young Japapese university students. For the first four months of my contract, I did not even consider dating an asian women. It is not that I wasn't attracted, I had just never considered that a relationship with an asian woman would be pratical for reasons of cultural and geographical differences.At some point, I began to realize that a few of my students were flirting with me, but I tried to ignore their advances and tried to tell myself that I was just imagining things. It wasn't that there would be anything morally wrong with dating any of these women: I had just recently graduated from college myself, and some of my students were actually older than me. It occurred to me that I was struggling with a kind of unconscious prejudice against dating women of another race. It wasn't that I had anything against interracial couples, I just thought that it was not something that I would personally get involved in. The whole thing came to a head when I was invited for an evening out with a bunch of the students. One of the women that had been flirty with me kicked things up a notch and began to get very insistent in her advances. After several beers and a lot of dancing, something just snapped in me: I thought "wow, this woman is really gorgeous, and she really digs me...why have I been fighting her off?". Since then, I have never gone back to dating non-asian women. It's not that I have anything against same race couples, it's just that it is no longer right for me.

Asian Love Story

In these modern days of the global village, matchmaking, dating and marriage web sites focusing on services for single women from asian countries like China, Japan and Korea abound. What is this new obsession for matching single men from countries like Britain, Canada and the United States to young available exotic asian cuties? Is there an oversupply of young Chinese women desperate to get married and having to look across the oceans for suitable partners? Maybe it is simply the secondary side - effects of the global economic rise to power of China. Or simply the fascination and curiousity to discover more about one of the world's great cultures only now recently making itself available for the world to explore: Beijing's Forbidden City, The Terracotta Warriors, The majesty of the Yangtze river. To say nothing of the alluring tales of Japanes geisha and samuri. But maybe it is just the fact that asian women are so darn cute. Beautiful, alluring and sensual: asian cuties are the pitcure of femininity and delicate visual eloquence. This site is a celebration of the charms of asian beauties!

Love Story of the mounth

Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice but falling in love with you I had no control over....I remember the first day when i saw him in class. He was wearing white shirt and black pant. I just looked at him and was impressed by his personality....... days passed........... and just a hello hi sort of conversation continued. In November he sent me an SMS. I messaged him and asked " who are you". He called me and informed. Then we used to send forwarded messages to each other. Sometimes he used to comment on those messages and i felt very nice. One day he added me on orkut. Daily i used to look at his pics for hours..
I dont know why i used to look but i felt something for him. Then we started chatting and there was a sort of excitement. We even started talking on phones. The whole day i used to wait for the night so that we can chat. we became friends but my feelings for him grew more and more as the time passed. Then one evening he called and asked "can we meet?" . It was an unexpected surprise for me which changed my whole life. I said yes!!!!!!!!!! and we met at lake. It was cold out there. He came running..........my heart started beating at full speed. We started walking ...........he was a bit fast. I wanted to tel him to be lil slow but i didnt. I became speechless. I wanted to look into his eyes but i looked here and there...............infact on everthing except him. We came back to parking area and he sat on my kinetic ................and i sat behind him and took a small round of that area. That was toooooooooo romantic but i was pretending to be normal. We went back to our homes ............And i recalled every moment spent together again and again. We met again at lake. He was with his friend. We ate petty and my hands started shivering though i was warm enough....... he jumped and told his friend...........i felt shy as if i did something wrong. His friend went and we both sat.......lake never seemed to me so beautiful as i felt at that time. We both were sitting closely..... I wanted to say You are what I never knew I always wanted........ Next time we went in a garden. He had to go back home also but he was not in a hurry. He asked me suddenly " What is going on between us". I became confused ......smiled and didnt gave any reply. He asked me again and again but i was silent. I couldnt sleep at night..........! I was in love! After he came back from his home, we met again in a garden. It was dark all around ....... He said that nothing can happen. All my hopes were shattered. I came back home and cried a lot. I felt as if i am worthless.............not good for anything. Every time i used to open my orkut account i could see him. So i decided to delete him so that i can forget him. He used to message me n i used to reply. I always felt nice whenever he used to send me a message. I again added him on orkut and said sorry with the add request. He called me on new year and said we will meet when he comes back. I again started thinking about him........we met.......on 26th January at his residence. We played all sorts of games. Then suddenly he said " what if i kiss you?" . I became numb........ I said " i know you will not do". He remained very busy with his office work so i never forced him to meet me frequently. We met on 10th feb (his birthday) for five minutes. It was drizzling. I didnt wanted to say bye but i had to........ We met again in March on Holi. That was the turning point of our relationship........where our eyes said everything to each other. The most eloquent silence.........where only love existed. We met again and again and came more close..............more...................more n more. Actually, there is no remedy for love but to love more. Whenever I meet him.... I feel the same charm as I felt on the first day. I want to be with him forever n ever n ever............! Amen!

he Importance of Manners When Dating

Minding your manners will not only show your date you respect them, but ensure that that respect will be returned.

Minding your manners on a date is as important as selecting the right restaurant, movie, or conversation topic. Remaining conscious of them will create a positive first impression and make your date feel special.

One reason it is important to have good manners is that your date with will use your behavior as a measure of your personality. If, for example, you are rude to a waiter, bark at the Starbuck's employee or act snippy with the usher at a movie theatre, your date may decide that you are not a very kind person and may reconsider going out with you again. Minding your manners will give your date a better impression of who you really are.

Manners are also a form of respect. While times and attitudes have changed, opening a door for a woman or allowing her to walk through first are all gestures that are appreciated. Having manners with those who wait or serve you also signs of respect. By having good manners with your date and others, you will show how much you respect yourself and your date.

Minding your manners also shows how considerate you are of others and their feelings. According to the Mountain State Center for Independent Living (www.mtstcil.com), manners go far beyond 'please' and 'thank you.' Manners indicate a deeper concern for others and their situation, similar to empathy. If you have these sorts of manners, then your date will admire you for your genuineness.

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How to act on a first date

1. Arrive at the location of your date on time. There is a saying that you never get a second chance to make a good first impression. How true that is.

2. Dress nice (unless your date location requires otherwise). Take time to look your best. The better you look, the better you’ll feel and the more confident you will be. If you’re a female, don’t dress provocative.

3. Turn your cell phone off. Most people these days have a cell phone and it is very rude to take a call while on a date. Minor exceptions include if you use your cell phone for emergency purposes (to receive emergency calls from home or work). Don’t disrespect your date with a ringing cell phone.

4. If you are a man and you meet your date outside of the date location (i.e. restaurant), open the door for her. Show her that you know how to be a gentleman and how to treat a lady. If you are seated in doors waiting for her and she walks in, stand up to properly greet her. Also, there’s nothing wrong with a friendly hug to start the date.

5. Be confident. From the moment the two of you meet, being confident is essential to making a strong impression throughout the date. This means that you know what you’re going to talk about, ask a lot of questions, don’t slouch, and express confident body language.

6. Use table manners. When eating a restaurant, remember not to order something potentially messy (i.e. Spaghetti) and don’t put your elbows on the table. Eat slowly and properly… this means closing your mouth when you eat and never talking with food in your mouth. When you don’t think about table manners, you can display potentially bad habits that will instantly turn your date off and become a “deal breaker” to any potential future dates.

7. Avoid heated topics. There are several topics that are taboo on a first date, including politics, religion (unless you met on a religious service), and sex topics. Avoid these throughout the entire date.

8. Be positive. In general, people are more strongly attracted to someone who is positive than someone who is negative. Avoid making negative comments about yourself on your date – including innocent ones like, “I’m trying to lose weight because I think I’m too fat”. When you make negative comments about yourself, those negative vibes influence your date’s perception of you.

9. Learn to listen. It’s important to engage your date in interesting conversations. Spend more time (particularly if you’re a guy) asking your date questions and listening carefully to his/her response. Be sure to ask “followup questions” that lets him/her know you were listening and are interested in the topic. For example, if your date says, “one of my favorite things to do is to skydive” then you should respond, “really? When’s the last time you went?”

10. Learn to read and express body language. Body language is important on a date because it shows whether the date is going well or not. For example, if your date is sitting with his/her arms crossed, it could be a sign of boredom. Yet if your date is engaged in conversation with you and innocently touches you on the hand or arm while making a point, then it shows an attraction. You can read more about first date body language here.

If the date went well, it is perfectly OK to arrange a second date at that time. Otherwise, you’ll end up playing the “dating game” where one waits several days for the other to call. It’s not a fun game and is heavily overrated. At the end of a first date, there should be expressions of feeling about the date – “I really enjoyed your company tonight,” etc.. When you come into agreement about how much you enjoyed the date, then it’s easy to move on to planning the next date and moving forward in your new-found relationship. (article Copyright 2007, Joe Tracy)

Use Jewelry To Attract Single Women

What are single women obsessed with and crazy about? It's jewelry. Look in any woman's jewelry box, drawers, etc. and you will find tons of jewelry. You will find rings, watches, pendants, broaches, etc.

So, what does this have to do with you meeting, dating, and attracting single women? It has a lot to do with making a good impression on women and I will tell you why:

First of all, take a look at the watch that you wear when you're going out to meet single women or the watch that you wear when going out on a date.

Are you wearing a cheap, ugly watch that you bought at K-Mart for $19.99? Are you wearing those cheap watches with the vinyl wristbands? Are you wearing your sports diving watch?

Don't do it! And I'll explain why and what watches you should be wearing to attract single women.

You might not be aware of this, but being that single women are so interested in jewelry, they tend to judge men by the watch they wear. You may not think this is fair, but trust me; you will be judged on first appearances. If you are wearing a cheap, ugly watch, this can send a message to her that you may be cheap and have no class. This is not good for scoring points!

Am I saying that you have to go out and buy a Rolex? No.

What I suggest is spending around a hundred bucks to buy you an attractive watch. Two brands that I highly recommend are Fossil and Guess watches. They look expensive and classy.

Try on a silver, gold, or silver and gold watch to see which one looks best on you. If you are by yourself, ask the sales clerk for their opinion on which one looks best on you. Also, stay away from leather bands. They can scratch easily and some of them look cheap.